The WINNER - Be the best judge

This is to the times we feel lost or confused. Life and people have us baffled sometimes. There is always something or someone which/who rises as a winner. As the nature has it, between two things one will always be stronger and surfaced. Be it the fight between the X and the Y chromosome fighting to be a zygote. It all starts right before we are even born. There will always be a brand we find better than the other, a time of the year more soothing than the rest of it, an actor, a festival, a career, a subject, a day, a number which appeals to us. Surprisingly this is how we were raised. In our childhood, there were people who would pose a question to us and I quote "which one do you like better- mom or dad?."

We are always given choices and we mean to choose the best for us. Then there are somethings we embrace in spite of there being better options for us. And these things/people are always special. Sometimes carrying a pepper spray or knowing martial arts is not going to keep us from hurting since we and our choices render us hurting quite perennially. They say prevention is better than cure but sometimes savoring the cure phase is pertinent to know the importance of prevention. With every heart beat we put ourselves in a prone to miseries state. But when we have survived the storm, we emerge like that warrior in the war for whom his scars from the wars become his medallions. When the storm has stopped, the sun is up and roads clear up without a trace of rains and nature's fury, we learn to forget that it even happened. At younger age I was told that time waited for none and somehow it conveyed that time was bad, selfish and impatient touch in life . As I have grown, I have realized that time has the perfect attitude and it is only wise to never wait for someone or something which was never worthy. Somethings becomes tales, some our past, our present and future, some our splendid memories, and if I see deeply, there is only one things that is constant in all of the above and that would be us. If we have created these once, we sure can do it again. Some characters stay and some do not. But then it is our tale to tell. It is our memory to treasure. And it sure is our past, present and future. And as long as we believe in our magic, we know we can be pretty constant in them. If I you are not a character in someone's life tale, then probably they are missing that superstar in their blockbuster. As I said there will always be one which will be the winner and surface and that must be what is good.

Choose your winners in life wisely. Because sometimes they come in disguise.

Sheetalism#Season 13